A Husband’s Self Help Book About Loss, Grief, Living With Cancer, Managing End of Life Care and Bereavement.
She was 46. We thought it was backache. Two weeks later, we heard the words no one wants to hear: Stage 4 bowel cancer.
Our world turned upside down. It wasn’t just a diagnosis; it was the beginning of an 18-month journey through palliative care, uncertainty, and grief. My wife refused to be defined by a prognosis, and we were determined to fight for every moment we had left.
Grief began the day we learned the truth. Caring for her meant we also had to care for ourselves—my children and I—while navigating the overwhelming reality of a terminal illness.
This husband’s memoir is not just a story about loss; it’s a self-help guide for anyone thrust into caregiving, grieving a relationship, or coping with the complexities of an end of life care plan. Here, I share what we learned:
• Seeking answers in the face of a terminal illness.
• Managing the heartbreak and despair that come with loss.
• Finding acceptance and creating moments of joy.
• Living in the midst of dying and embracing what truly matters.
• Deciphering medical advice and learning who to trust.
• Discovering what help worked—and what didn’t.
• Above all, this book offers insights into the grieving process, caregiving, and self-care. It’s for those navigating bereavement, end-of-life challenges, and the delicate balance between hope and acceptance as you prepare for the death of a spouse.
If you’re looking for support, guidance, or simply a companion in this journey, Future Widower is here for you.
Early reviews:
“Painfully intimate, honest and raw… a real, personal, shocking but absorbing account.” —Advance Reader
“Beautifully written, easy to understand, and cleverly manages to be both memoir and self-help manual… It made me laugh then cry. What one does for love!” —Libby, Nurse
“A must-read for anyone navigating a challenging medical situation… Richard’s writing is gentle, loving, compassionate, and honest. I highly recommend his book.” —Roni Klass
“Easy to read, practical, emotional and meaningful… A good reminder of what is really important—simply being present.” —Bridget Garcia
“Raw and potent… A thorough exposure of the human condition. Not to be addressed lightly, but tenderly and with endless respect.” —Graham Macdonald
“Deeply authentic and moving… Astounding detail and precision—he did it all: caregiving, parenting, grieving.” —Maanik Mahna
“Poignant, beautiful, and raw… Your clarity and willingness to share yourself is heart-warming. You touch many hearts.”—Peggy Verret
“A humbling and thought-provoking experience… A vital read for anyone going through or supporting someone with medical crisis or bereavement.” —Lulu Thomas
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